What can not be spoken father, told the female child (It's real guys!)

By : Cha V Lautner

 Typically, for a girl of full age, who was working , who joined her husband wander outside the city or abroad, who were at school or college away from her parents .....

Will often feel very missed by her mother .. So what about Dad? Maybe because she is more often called to see you doing every day, but do you know, if it turns out my father - one who reminds Mama to call you?

Maybe once when you're little, Mama was the one who more often take you tell or berdongeng, but you know that after my father worked and with tired faces at Mama's father always ask about are you and what did you do all day?

By the time you are still a little girl ...... My father usually teaches his little girl climbed sepeda.Dan after my father could pick up, then I will release the auxiliary wheel in your bike ... Then Mama said: "Not yet Dad, do not be removed once the wheels help him", daughter of Mama's afraid of falling sweetness and injured ... . But realize you? That the Father with confidence will let you, look at you, and take care pedaled carefully because she knows her little girl SURE CAN.

When you cry whine request new dolls or toys, Mama look at iba.Tetapi Dad would say emphatically: "Can we buy it later, but not now" You know, Dad did it because I do not want you to become a spoiled child with all claims that can always be met?

When you're a cold, my father who was too afraid to yell sometimes a little by saying: "Already in the say! You do not drink cold water!". Unlike Mama who observe and advise you gently. Know that time my father really worried about doing.

When you've got teenagers ..... You start demanding on my father for permission to go out at night, and my father was firm and said: "Not allowed!". Do you know that my father did was to take care of you? As for Dad, you are something very - very unusual precious ..

After that you're mad at Dad, and entered the room, slamming the door ... And that comes knocking doors and persuade you to not upset the Mama ..... Do you know that when my father closed his eyes and holding the turmoil in his mind, That Papa was eager to follow your wishes, but once again he MUST take care of you?

When when a guy started to call you often, or even come to the house to see you, I will put the world's coolest face .... : ') Father occasionally eavesdropping or peeping when you are chatting together in the living room .. you realize that if my father felt jealous heart?

When you begin to be more credible, and Dad relax a little out of the house rules for you, you will be forced to violate at malamnya.Maka made my father was sitting in the living room, and waiting to go home with a heart that is very worrying ...

And after feeling worried about it go on - late ... When I saw her little girl's father came home late at night hearts will harden and Dad memarahimu .. . You realize, that this was because it was feared that the father will soon come? "That little girl will soon leave Papa"

After graduating from high school, Dad will be a little force you to become a doctor or engineer. Know that the entire force that made my father was alone - the eyes just thinking about your future Papa later ... But anyway keep smiling and supporting you when your choice is not in accordance with the wishes of my father

When you become an adult girl .... And you have to go to college another town ... You got to let you in bandara.Tahukah you that the agency Father feels stiff to hold you? He just smiled as he gave this advice - that, and tell you to be careful. . And I want to cry like a tight hug Mama and Papa erat.Yang do is remove a little tear in the corner of his eyes, and patted his shoulder saying "Take care of yourself well yes dear". Dad did it all for you .... POWERFUL strong to go and become adults.

When you need money to finance half of the money and life, the first person is frowned Papa. Dad must have tried hard to find a way so that their children can feel the same with other friends.

When the request is no longer simply asking a new doll, and Dad knew he could not give what you want ... The words that came out of Dad's mouth was: "No. .... No way!" Whereas in the inner father he really wanted to say "Yes honey, Daddy will buy you". Did you know that at that moment my father feels failed to make her son smile?

It's time you graduated as a strata. My father was the first to stand up and applaud you. My father will smile with pride and satisfaction of seeing "a spoiled little girl who did not grow up successfully, and has become someone" Until now, a friend of your man came to the house and asked for permission to Dad to take you from him.

Dad would be very careful about giving permission .. Because I know ..... That guy that's going to replace him later. And finally .... When my father saw you sitting on stage with the bridal dais someone think of it decent man who in his place, my father was smiling happily ...

. Do you know, on that happy day that my father went backward stage for a while, and weep? Dad was crying because my father is very happy, then my father prayed quietly ..... In his prayer to God, Father said: "O Lord my job has been completed with good .... My little girl is cute and I love has become a beautiful woman ... . Bahagiakanlah she and her husband ..

. 'After that my father could only wait your arrival with his grandchildren who occasionally come to visit ... With her hair had turned white and the body and arms .... And that was no longer strong enough to take care of you from danger ...

. My father had finished his task .... Daddy, Daddy, Dad, or Abah us ... It is a figure that should always look strong ..

. Even when he was not strong to not cry ... She has to look firmly even when he wants to pamper you. .

And he was the first person who always believes that "YOU CAN" in all things ..

I get these notes from a friend, and maybe it is better if I re-share them with my friends the other.

I dedicate this writing to my friends a beautiful woman, who has since turned into an adult woman and ANGGUN, and also for my male friends that have been or will be a GREAT dad!

Yup, a lot of things that might not be said Father / Father / Father / Papa / Papi us ... but at least now we understand what is hidden behind the heart.

It notes I co-past from my brother.
From here we can learn, that what really is our desire, they may not be happy. But what they plan for us, that's really what's best for us. Not just a father, my mother was also instrumental in this regard. Love was their:)